The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord. It is good for a man to bear the yoke while he is young. Lamentations 3:25-27 (NIV).
This is a concluding part of I did not get accepted, what’s next?
Be easy on yourself.
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 (NIV).
Application season is very tasking. All kinds of commitment are involved; emotional, financial, time among many others, and these give you a sense of attachment to every school you apply to. Each potential school gives you a flicker of hope –maybe this is it. However, when this does not happen, it is quite devastating. It is very hard to say but it is best to take some time to express how you feel. Do something to express your disappointment to avoid closed in emotions, cry if you have to (It is not an “unchristain” thing to do) but be resilient. Find strength from inward to regroup and plan again. Mental health is a topic for another day but take care of yours.
Wait your turn.
Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD. Psalm 27:14 (KJV).
“We live in a microwave generation where everyone wants things right now. Sometimes, we need something well cooked”. That was a statement by my pastor, and I found that hilarious, but it is the simple truth. How would we learn to trust and keep our faith in God if He gave us a quick fix solution to every problem? The trajectory of our lives is not always a straight line—there are twists and turns. God’s presence is a reassurance in whatever you are going through now. God calls the shots (if you allow Him) and to each one, He knows when and what is best at the right time. Trust me, by the time the whole picture comes together, it is going to be worth the wait. I can testify to that in many instances of my life . We don’t live only for ourselves, if you think otherwise, please reconsider. The story of our lives has a ripple effect on other people’s stories. Someone needs your story to be encouraged on their own path. Consider this season like an oven-baked cake analogy. The temperature and timing must be right. Don’t rush out and get half-baked. Don’t tarry too long to become burnt too—trust God for your time and chance.
I recently read a post that said, “Don’t publish your story when God is still writing it”. Wait your turn, be happy for others when it is their time. You will also get that particular email of a “Yes”. Keep it going the world awaits your manifestation!
Tips:
1. Build a network of people that will give you more insight on your application. Getting the right information save a lot of trouble.
2. Standardized tests are great if you write them. Some schools waive them but be sure you have other strong points in your application portfolio to help increase your chances.
3. Have recommenders that know you. A generic recommendation is the last thing you want to have. This happens when you have a stranger as a recommender. Most times, you don’t get to see what they wrote about you, and you want to be sure someone put in a good word for you. Your academic and research advisors capitalize on their experience working with you.
HOW DID YOU NAVIGATE A PERIOD OF DISAPPOINTMENT?
Special note: Would you give your life to Jesus Christ? He is the way, the truth and the life. If yes, please pray the prayers below:
Lord Jesus, thank you for your death and resurrection for the salvation of my soul. Please forgive all my sins. I choose you today to follow and to obey. May your love and the holy spirit lead and guide my purpose for your glory. Thank you, my Lord and savior. Amen!
Grace and blessings,
Olushola.
